Friday, June 27, 2008

Judge Decrees us Parents!

This morning at 11:30 we had our court case. Monique, Valery, Ruslan, Yuri, Alina, Natalia, and Tatiana were there. The judge asked us some questions about our family and if our desire to adopt these children. He also asked the same question that has been asked of us every step of the way "Why do you want to adopt three children when you already have three children?" We told him that we have thought about this for many years and prayed about it. We knew that our family was not complete and wanted to adopt children from Ukraine because of my heritage.
After more questions, he then asked us if we still desire to adopt these children and, of course, we said YES! He asked each of the children one by one if they wanted to be adopted by us, and they all said YES! He had some questions for Natalia as well as Tatiana. After checking documents, verifying information, the judge then read the decree naming each child individually and pronouncing us the proud parents of Ruslan, Yuri, and Alina HORB!!!

Then it was off to a celebratory lunch! After lunch we went to get their passport pictures taken. It didn't seem like a big deal, but when we went into the store to get the pictures made, the man began yelling at us! He told us that we didn't need as many pictures as asked for. We needed the photos for passports and paperwork at the US Embassy. We thought it made more sense to get all the photos at once. He did agree to take the pictures and was angry while he did it. What is wrong with these people?

The next steps in the process involve getting the court decree, birth certificates, and passports. Ten days from today, July 7th, all the court documents will be ready to be picked up. Our attorney Valery will begin the next steps of the process for us. After the passports are applied for it can take up to three weeks for them to be done. We have decided to come home on Monday and then we will come back to pick up the children when the passports are done. This means we will be home anywhere from three to four weeks. Then we will return to Ukraine and bring our children home!

Our biggest frustration today was trying to get a notary to sign a power of attorney for our facilitator. We went to several offices today and were told the following reasons why our papers could NOT be notarized: 1. Done working for the day (it was 3:30pm and the office was open until 5:30pm) 2. Come back tomorrow at 10am (didn't say if she would do it, just come back) 3. I've never seen that document done before, so it's Impossible! I've never seen it so it can't be done!(Our attorney had examples of the needed document, and said yes it can be done. He's done it several times before.) 4. Your American Passport will not work for identification (Are you Kidding Me?!?!?) 5. You need an Ukrainian identification card (I am an American Citizen-and don't even live here). 6. Have your power of attorney done and apostilled in America-then send it to us. 7. Why do you need Power of Attorney? Adopted kids in Ukraine don't need passports--I've done this for 30 years. (WHAT??? In the Free World, Everyone Needs a Passport to Travel!! --except I suppose if you are coming in small boats from Cuba or sneaking in to America from Mexico.)

We arrived back at YWAM and Monique called one of the missionaries here. He called back to say that he found someone who will be able to do our notary papers in the morning. YEAH!

After the court hearing, we all went out for a celebratory lunch!











Alina and Monique

16 comments:

Carrie Comstock said...

Ahhhh....that first paragraph had me crying. Such happy, happy news! Sorry for all of the other hiccups along the way. But such happy, happy news overall!

Dawn said...

PRAISE GOD ALMIGHTY IN HEAVEN ABOVE!!!!!!!!!

BridgetdSmith said...

Monique!!! I have been following along and reading & praying ....I am THRILLED and inspired by you & Zenon!!

Your "new" babes are BEAUTIFUL!

I have wept! Laughed! PRAYED for y'all! Thank you for allowing me to vicariously "come along" on this "birth"!!! For this is just the beginning of many memories to be made! Traditions to keep! Dates to remember! Lessons to learn AND teach!

I pray that God continue to shine on your marriage! Your children...ALL 6 of them! Your influence on all that you come into contact with....that HE receive GLORY !! I ask that you "feel" His covering "as He goes before and hems you in from behind as your rear guard" !

May It Be So !!


Sending Love & prayers from Illinois!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Praise God! Isn't God so AWESOME?! I'm so happy for you after this long roller coaster ride.

Eugene

Jamie said...

yea! I had tears as i read your report and looked at these little ones who the Lord has given you. No longer orphans... They have a mom and a dad. May you lead them to their heavenly Father. I love you!! Jamie

Scott Jones said...

Wow how wonderful! The difference a month can make in our life time. Oh how your hearts must have leaped for joy as the judge spoke.
We are so thrilled to be apart of this step of faith that you have made! I love that you have followed the calling that God has given you and reached out to these beautiful children and made them apart of your family. We look forward in seeing you this week....until then~CJ

Alyssa Weiler said...

AMAZING! AMAZING! For He knows the plans He has for us, to prosper...Love you all! Alyssa

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Horb's!!

Its now a tongue twister..Zenon, Monique, Elyse, Ruslan, Alex, Yuri, Addie, & Alina!! Congratulations to you ALL!!

ERAYAA...It sounds like a Ukranian cheer!

Jared & Mary

Zack, Jenn and William said...

Congrats - wonderful news. Praise God!

The Flying Eagle said...

YEA!!!!! How wonderful! It most be such a relief to have the court hearing out of the way. We wish you happy and safe travel home and an easy and joyful transition to your new family.

adopting2fromUkraine said...

Congratulations!

You are very right about needing lots of photos. You need at least one for the passport, maybe more, the Embassy asks for them, one for USCIS to leave at your first American stop on the way home, and one to send in with the required registration paper that is due withing 30 days of coming home to the US. There may be more that I don't even know about. Our daughter had her picture taken twice. Once in region and once in Kiev. We were lucky to have one left over to keep.

I've read all kinds of excuses from notaries on other blogs. I think they just make up whatever they want.

Of course this doesn't help you any, but we had to show our passport when we went to the notary.

Ukrainian passports seem to be issued quicker now than when we were there. Our daughter's took over three weeks and they even lost her paperwork. Of course, it all depends on the region and IF there aren't any stubborn people.

Blessings on your new additions:)
June

Anonymous said...

So happy for your family! I'm glad you are getting to come home. We miss you around here! God's timing is perfect and He knows the "Big picture"! You will continue to be in our prayers. I hope we can get together soon! Love you!! Jenn

Greta said...

Congratulations to the Horb family! Your children are beautiful and you all look so excellent together! Best wishes for a quick and safe return home for all of you.

junglemama said...

Congratulations! WE are in Ukraine too with court on Thursday. I can't believe all of those excuses. I say only in Ukraine. :)

ArtworkByRuth said...

Congratulations! What a beautiful pic of all of you!

Anonymous said...

Zenon and Monique

I have just had the time to read this and I too am thrilled for you and all your children. WOW!!!! What an emotional rollercoster ride.

I'm proud to call you my friends. May God always watch over you and your family.

Michael

Ukranian Orphans