Monday, June 9, 2008

Day 3 SDA Appointment Day


Today was our appointment at the State Department of Adoption. What an adventurous day; our first appointment was for 9:00 AM, but didn't know it. No problem, after our facilitator spoke with the SDA, we got the appointment rescheduled for 12:00 PM. This became our second dilemma of the day; the great Zenon forgot the passports. The appointment was then again rescheduled for 4:00 PM. If anything went awry at this appointment, big problems, like no appointment at all.

After retrieving our passports and a light Italian lunch, we headed back to the SDA. We anxiously awaited for our appointment. The fear of the unknown is probably one of the hardest things to cope with. Our time finally arrived and we nervously went into the SDA's conference room to begin the process. (footnote: the ladies at the SDA were very gracious and helpful throughout our "double day"--Monique called it that because we traveled there twice)

Zenon & Monique in front of the SDA

They conducted a brief interview and then began showing us the children's "files". These consisted of a picture of the child and a summary of pertinent information in regards to each child or children. As we looked though the various files that were given to us, one of the SDA workers asked how many children we were officially approved to adopt. We kindly let them know that we had been praying about two children, but that we had applied for up to three children. In typical Ukrainian fashion, the ladies retorted "well look at this file, it has two beautiful boys and two beautiful girls. Never mind the quantity, we can get you approved for four."

Deep breath - at this point I began taking my queues from Monique. A quickly panicked face let me know to press on. We continued to seem to come back to one particular file. We were then shown a number of files with children that had various special and medical needs. The question kept going on in my mind - how will we know who the right children should be. My heart pains for the many siblings that we felt we had to pass on. Eventually, after continuing to come back to a particular file, we had made our decision.

We would like to announce the newest members of the Horb Family: Pyclan (Ruslan), Yupiu (Yuri), and Alina. We will be traveling to Ternopil(near Lviv). Ternopil can be found by looking directly west of Kiev and slightly south. We we be traveling train Tuesday evening. We will leave on a 11:56pm train, for a seven hour ride. These trains are called sleeping trains. It's interesting to me how travel is done here, since most people don't have cars--they uses public transportation. When we went to the train station tonight (at around 10:30) to get the tickets for tomorrows trip, the train station was bustling with lots and lots of people travel and getting tickets.

Once we arrive in Ternopil on Wednesday morning we will with Valery to the Inspectors office to get permission to go to the orphanage to meet the children and continue the paperwork process. Please continue to pray as we venture out to the beautiful Ukrainian western oblast of Ternopil.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!

Carrie Comstock said...

Happy tears! Hard to type through the tears. So thrilled. Can't wait to see the newest members of the family. :)

Zack, Jenn and William said...

I've been checking all day for an update - so excited about your news!! I'll be praying that all goes well as you get approval and have your initial meeting with the director, doctor, and children!

Scott Jones said...

I (cathy)read this with tears and it was very cool to read it from Zeon's persepective! I can't wait to hear Monique's and to see the kids faces! I read it to our family at dinner and then we prayed for the 6of you, wow 6 of you!! We have a big house for sale if you need it!! love you both.
until wednesday, Cathy

Anonymous said...

Congrats to you both!! I am reading your blog (never done that before) to Michelle What an unbelievably exciting time. Plus a whole country full of Zenon's. Never a dull moment with that!! We keep praying for smooth travel and freindly government people!!

Heidi and Felix said...

Congratulations! Through all of the trials today, God spun his magic. We'll continue to pray for your journey.

Unknown said...

I've been anxious to hear how your appt went, can't wait to hear how you've met the kids.

wow - just wow.

Anonymous said...

It was good talking to you today and hearing the excitement from you both. Your first three seemed excited too although lots of questions of logistics of when everyone gets home. We assured them that it would all work out and the two of you would have lots of answers for their questions.

Our two boys quickly figured out that we wont have any more dual family trips with us all piling into the Suburban. But, they quickly offered to have any of the six join us for future family trips.

Mary and I are pleased to have two more nephews and a niece added to our family!!

Noah and Grant are ready to meet their new cousins and see how well they can kick the ball!! They also said that they better be prepared to bring their wii game cause there's gonna be some competitions going down when they get here!!

Noah says that Rocket is ready to meet them too!!

Talk to you soon,

You Know Who!!

Dawn said...

Joy floods my soul for you AND for your new children. O what an adventure awaits THEM. I am so very anxious to see their photos. Our own adoption was finalized just a week and a half ago. It is amazing to be able to call her our own. I can't wait til you get to feel the same when all the legalities are over and you board the plane for home.

Wine Lover said...

Monique and Zenon, thanks for updates. We will keep you in our prayers through this process.

Jamie said...

i am so excited to read your blog!! I was remembering your smile on your porch the night before you left, Monique... and your prayer request that the Lord would make it really clear when you saw the pictures of the kiddos. It seems He answered those prayers!! I am so excited to hear about tomorrow! i will keep praying. Love you much!!

Anonymous said...

hi friends! Cathy called and told me about the kids and I just caught up on the blog. You will be like the Brady Bunch - 3 boys and 3 girls! I know someone that can sell you a 15 passenger van if you decide to pick up a few more! hahaha!! Can't wait to hear about everything when you get home. I'm praying for you as you meet your new children today! love you! Jenn

adoptedthree said...

Ternopil is a wonderful city! We did our first adoption there in 2000 and for many years few adoptions have occurred there. I am so excited to see a family adopting from there now!

The Flying Eagle said...

How wonderful! How exciting :-) We are so happy for you all. Monica & David

junglemama said...

How exciting! What are there ages?

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